Have you heard of Dr Laura? She is the number 1 listened-to female radio host and third overall listened-to radio personality in the nation. The “Dr.” alludes to Dr. Laura’s PhD in physiology from Columbia University and her postdoctoral certification and license in Marriage and Family Therapy.

Through her decades of experience as a couples counselor and radio talk show host, Dr. Laura has come to understand that many women sabotage their relationships through nagging, waspishness, frigidity, and adhering to a double standard that their needs matter while the needs of the men in their lives do not.

Dr. Laura reminds women that a caring relationship takes two and that a woman’s responsibility in a marriage is to look out for the needs of her husband. Dr. Laura strongly urges women who complain about the “unreasonable demands” and “insensitivity” of their men to take a look at their own behavior first. Dr Laura finds from her distressed callers that unreasonable demands made by men in marriage often aren’t so unreasonable. They mostly consist of husbands’ requests for input in mutual concerns, such as decisions about household finances or the raising of children, and their so-called insensitivity is often more a reaction to demoralizing verbal abuse from their wives.

It’s hard to disagree with Dr Laura about what makes a marriage work. It’s certainly not selfishness!


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The Federal Government now says it sees the error of its ways and now plans to teach Veterans about their deserved benefits! The Government has now decided to teach Veterans about their benefits and business opportunities as part of their exit process.

Before the war on terror, the Government had always provided its Veterans with some very good benefits. The problem is that they just never bothered to tell anyone about them.

Actually, that isn’t literally true but over the years, they certainly didn’t do a good job of communicating with Veterans about their deserved benefits.

Even today, if you look at the mind-boggling benefits available to Veterans, it would take a super-computer several days to sort them all out.

I’ve researched all sides of the debate. I’ve listened to the political arguments as well as the practical debates. Here’s my conclusion thus far. Yes, we’re spending more today than in the history of our country on Veteran benefits. No, we’re not doing enough.

That being said, I refuse to let pre-terror-war Veterans die without knowing that they have a huge opportunity to become wealthy if they use many of their benefits to their advantage.

Here’s why every Veteran should own a business that is capable of selling to the Government. Did you know that the Federal Government has a “target” of spending 3% of their budget with Veteran-owned businesses every year? Three percent may not seem like much but last year, our government targeted over $9 Billion, (yup, you heard me… that’s a Billion with a capital “B”!) with Veteran-owned businesses.

Of course, they only spent $1.2 Billion with Veteran-owned businesses last year. The reason that they only spent $1.2 Billion with Veterans last year is that there aren’t that many Veteran-owned businesses to spend it with!

According to the 2004 Census information, there are about 25 million Veterans in the US. The Government estimates that there are “about” five million Veteran-owned businesses. Not all of them are qualified to do business with the Government (in fact, there are only about 50,000 Veteran businesses registered to do business with the Government).

If every Veteran owned a business that was qualified to do business with the Federal Government, each Veteran-owned business would receive $360 million as its share of the Federal budget (divide $9 Billion by 25 million Veterans and it equals $360 million per Veteran-owned business).

If you combine the ability to start your own business that has huge Government preferences, and the Government’s burning desire to spend huge amounts of our tax dollars with your Veteran-owned business, that combination could ultimately make you rich!

Here’s my point. As a Veteran, you have tremendous benefits available to you if you choose to start your own business. These benefits give you a significant advantage over your online competitors.

Your odds of building a profitable, successful business are better than almost every new business owner in the United States. Why? Because you have the discipline to build your own successful business and you have so much free assistance available to you. Take advantage of the benefits you deserve.

If you would like to learn more about this huge opportunity, visit www.sba.gov right now.

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P.S. For all you Internet Marketers out there who have great products that can help our Veterans make money on the Internet, here’s your chance to tap into a huge niche market by offering the people who pledged their very lives for our freedom an opportunity to succeed.

You won’t believe the kind of benefits many of the people on your opt-in lists have available to them and you’re not even taking advantage of it! Grant money. Low- interest loans. Educational benefits that can possibly be used to pay for your products and services. Access to the dollars our government spends every year to keep our country running.

Think about it. If your products can help our Veterans take their fair share of over 9 Billion Dollars a year, wouldn’t you like to help them out in exchange for a share of that business?

I pose that question as a brain-teaser. Most of you will not grasp the significance but some of you will have a light go off in your brain and actually create a product and pricing scheme to help them become more successful than some of your other student audiences.

Think about this for a second. Many of you teach people how to sell on eBay (which I agree is a huge market). How many of you know about the Government’s directive to spend $9 Billion a year with Veterans? Here’s the BIG difference…. Nobody on eBay HAS to buy from an eBay seller. Our Government Agencies have been given a directive by the President of the United States to spend $9 Billion per year with our Veterans!

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Pat Kiggins is a successful business executive and even
started his own successful technology company in Dallas.
More importantly, Pat is a Veteran with several Purple
Hearts and has started his own Veteran-owned business
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29.05.2008. | Categories: Political Groups | Comments Off

Dear George,

I hope I can take the liberty of a first-name salutation. You’ve got a few bucks and it’s well known that you take an interest in politics. I put it to you that it’s possible America would benefit from another 3rd-party alternative to Republicans and Democrats. Hard to make the case for your involvement while stumbling over formalities. Although we’ve never met, feel free to call me Jim.

This third-party thing isn’t a new idea and hasn’t been all that successful in the past. This seems to be a two-party country. We’ve had our Ralph Naders and Ross Perots from time to time, with even a Steve Forbes thrown in for comic relief, but they all had a fatal flaw. They all put themselves up as a third-party candidate for President.

Bad thinking. In your case, it’s impossible thinking because you were born in Hungary and we require our candidates to be native-born. Doesn’t mean you can’t financially back the candidate of your choice and I assume you will, but I hope to impress upon you the need for an additional campaign.

We don’t need just a different party in power. Republicans and Democrats have failed us, each according to the moment. We need a change in the way politics is done in Washington and it wouldn’t take all that much to make it happen.

The Republicans, who have wandered so far from their original and well-founded beliefs in a conservatism that actually conserves something, share an almost even split in public support with the Democrats, who haven’t had a really new and inspiring thought in forty years. But they are each enormously large, lumbering and deeply entrenched political organizations.

The intimidating organizational structure, political will and financial means it would take to offset the weight of a full-grown Democratic mule or Republican elephant consistently defeats third parties. Yet overcoming those supposedly impossible hindrances becomes no more than a finger-touch to the scale, once they are close to balance, near to cancelling one another out.

As they are now, among a disenchanted electorate.

Third-party presidential candidates are merely spoilers, a fact proven often enough we need no longer press the issue. But every sampling of voters reinforces the reality that large proportions of Republicans as well as Democrats are discouraged by their own, as well as the opposition party.

An opportunity not often stumbled upon in American politics.

It’s obviously far too late for your effective personal involvement in the November mid-terms. But 2008 is an entirely different matter. There’s time between now and then to help this frustrated and divided nation, whose citizenship you have chosen to accept and whose principles you admire. What I propose is neither Republican or Democrat, liberal or conservative in nature. It’s non-partisan, doesn’t require a majority in either house of the Congress and doesn’t even espouse a political doctrine.

That’s why it has a real chance to shake off the encumbrances both parties have taken upon themselves. That’s why, appealing to both liberal and conservative, this proposal has a chance to bring us truly representative government again. I don’t think either a Democrat or a Republican could argue against that. In the words of Jefferson, it robs no man’s pocket, breaks no man’s leg.

What it does propose to do is return a sense of public empowerment into a political system that’s been radicalized beyond recognition. Here’s the basic outline, George, feel free to pencil in the margins.

Do some market research and come up with a party name, something with broad appeal and enough legs to become permanent. Your guys are good at that, it’s what you pay them for.
Find, inspire and financially back candidates of a like-mind in House and Senate 2008 races in all fifty states. Like mind being those committed to independent thought and issues-based representation. No litmus test. Trust me on that, but I’ll explain later.
Concentrate only on races where independent candidates have a reasonable chance of winning.
Sponsor a National Convention to hammer out a platform, dedicated not to narrow principle, but to independent, rational, bipartisan governance.
Devote your major financial commitment to that convention and the national advertising required to support candidacies based on its platform.
Win perhaps 10 Senate races and 50 House seats. Possibly more, but ten and fifty would be a smashing success.

You’re the guy with the money, so I guess you make the rules, but I would hope this 3rd party wouldn’t waste itself on get out of Iraq or balance the budget or stop lobbyist influence issues. There’s are more worthwhile flags out there under which to march.

My thought is that ‘Soros’ candidates (as an example) might be pro-life or pro-choice, but they would be dedicated to dialog on how best to bring the two sides of this issue together, rather than split even further. Candidates might be socially more liberal or conservative, depending on their constituency, but would be bound by no major party line enforcing their legislative vote.

That’s the magic.

Think of the power that 10 Senators and 50 Representatives, voting conscience instead of party-line, could bring back to our eroded confidence in government. Such a power, waxing and waning depending on the political times and argument, might end the destructive and repetitive cycles of party dominance in Washington.

Consider the impact of Senator Jim Jeffords of Vermont, when he changed his Republican affiliation to Independent in the U.S. Senate. Jeffords suddenly spoke with a much more powerful voice. He pioneered a single independence that made a singular difference. Suddenly, a party that steamrollered its Senators became aware of the need to address them individually.

Jeffords does not represent total independence from party within the Senate, but he points the way.

Congress hasn’t the courage to leave its feeding-tube payment by special interest, nor to back away from the terrible polarization of its party whips. But set free from the crushing grip of partisan politics, a small and independent membership could make the critical difference, might pull us back within the intended framework of representative government.

You could do it, George. What a far greater service to your country than mere support of a presidential candidate.

Jim Freeman - EzineArticles Expert Author

29.04.2008. | Categories: Political Groups | Comments Off